The Conference Weekend and Easter Stretch

 Anyone who knows me in person or has been following along here on the blog for very long, knows that I'm a bit disorganized and pretty much the opposite of fancy.   I host a lot these days (between book group and YSA events), but I am definitely not someone who can host something and make it look put-together and effortless.  People come to our house and get a sense that it was a stretch for me to make it happen!   This Conference / Easter weekend was a case in point, with the struggle made  a bit worse than usual because Glen was in Denver visiting his parents all weekend long.  

On Saturday, Adam invited up a bunch of friends to watch Conference in our theater room and to eat all 3 meals at our home.  I had it all planned in advance and thought I was good to go, but somehow struggled even getting breakfast on the table.    I served cheddar cheese pancakes with fruit syrup, bacon (most of which I burned to an absolute char), scrambled eggs, and some fruit.   Besides the bacon, it actually turned out pretty well, but I ended not serving it until 10ish minutes before the first session began, so it felt rushed.  Conference was awesome (of course), and the other meals came together okay (croissant sandwiches for lunch and taco salad for dinner), with only minor omissions and mess-ups.   Most of the day we had about a dozen people there, with some trading places that happened along the way.   

On Conference Sunday, I very spontaneously opened up our theater room to our YSA ward for watching conference.   Over the course of the day we generally had 4-6 visitors there (not including Adam and Tia).  I fed lunch (croissant sandwiches again) to about 10-12 people.      

After all that came the hard part--trying to cook Easter dinner  by myself.  Normally Glen, Heather, and my Mom would make part of the meal as well, but, as previously mentioned, Glen was gone, Heather is still completely non-weightbearing on her broken ankle, and my Mom is struggling with stuff, so it was me.  Adam and Tia helped with some of it, but I was making things that other people normally make (like the potatoes, ham, and meat), so it was all only okay.   My Mom did set the table beautifully, which made me smile.  Neither Heather nor Spence felt up for joining us for dinner, so it just ended up being me, Adam, Tia, Mom, and my nephew, Andrew, so it felt very small.  

Here's a closer look at  what we ate:   Ham, roasted beef, glazed brussels sprouts, roasted potatoes, and Brazi bites.   I had also made some carrot cake (not shown) and a purchased Oreo ice cream cake was served for Andrew's birthday (which was also on Easter Sunday).  

We also got to talk to our missionary on Easter and on Monday!   She's finally doing a bit better after struggling with an increase in seizures over the last couple weeks.  It's been a rough couple weeks for our sweet girl and she still isn't 100%, but we are happy that there is some improvement at least!  I am getting so excited for her to come home in June!  

Also on Easter Monday, I got to go to Ashton Gardens for a YSA stake FHE night.  The weather was lovely that day and it was delightful to spend the evening with ward and stake members enjoying the beautiful flowers and amazing sculptures of Christ.  

I'll be honest...I was a bit exhausted after it was all over, but taking into account that I fed about 30 people five separate full meals (though never that many people all at once), I think I did okay.  It's fun living somewhere that we can host that many people and close enough that people actually come, even if it is a stretch for me!  

And I'll end with a quote from General Conference from Elder Bednar that really stuck with me: 

Enduring to the end is linked inextricably to the spiritual gift of charity. Enduring to the end is not merely a relentless determination to grit our teeth, hold on to the limits of our physical strength and mental capacity, and push through the challenges and adversities of mortal life; it is so much more than that.

Enduring to the end is the joyous quest of a lifetime—a pressing forward with faith in Jesus Christ in a gradual process of trusting in and receiving help from our Savior to become more like Him. As our love for Him grows ever stronger and deeper, we can be blessed to receive spiritual perspective, the Lord’s empowering grace, and exceedingly great and indescribable joy.


Life has felt a little heavy and hard lately and I needed this reminder about what enduring to the end is really all about.  I may not be crossing as many things off my own to-do list right now, but He's helping me to focus on what's most important.   💓

Looking Back...

Alright, I interrupt the regularly scheduled updates of how intensely crazy life currently is (with a new stress about one of my kids thrown into the mix), to share these old photos we recently came across at my Mom's house.   My Mom has a new diagnosis that I'm not ready to talk about on here yet, but it's a doozy that requires a lot more testing and will severely affect her life in the future.  We are all still trying to process.    In the meantime, she's been trying to go through boxes and I thought it would be fun to share some of the treasures we came across.   

Here's a couple of me from when I was a baby...

I see glimpses of my kids in these....

And this one was with me and my Mom taken on the day before my younger brother was born. It was May 1974 in Germany and I was 13 months old....so basically still a baby myself!      

I love this sweet family photo from around 1977.  

This one was taken around 1979 or so in Oklahoma City, and includes my Uncle Mike (in back), Kristina, my cousin, Ashley, Pete, Nate, my cousin, Aaron, and me (in the front row).

This one is 1988 with me holding my brother, Tim.   My hair was clearly in fine form in the 1980's.  

These were taken around 1999...

Look at my sweet Littles, who are now almost 31 and 29!   

These pics are on display at my Mom's house...

Look at those cute little smiles...

I thought this old drawing of mine was cute and kind of funny.   I'm guessing that the teacher had written the writing prompt up on the chalkboard and I very obediently even added the blanks to show that I filled it in!   Haha!   And the fact that I was excited to "play around the house" for Spring Break is also kind of funny.   

Here is an old letter Cami had written to her Great- Grandma Hepworth.   She passed away in 2009, so it was sometime before then...

 My Mom has a very hard time parting with items like these, so taking pictures of them and sharing them here on the blog is a good way to preserve them for future posterity.   Perhaps I'll have to start posting these flashback posts more regularly again...


 

A Few Things that Have Been Making Me Happy

Life has felt extra stressful lately.   In between the normal busyness of life, Glen is in process of transitioning to a new job (again!), things are heating up with the extended family drama I'm helping with, we are trying to spend more time with my elderly aunt who is in the crosshairs of the family drama, I had TWO unexpected trips out of town (one to OKC for my Nana's funeral and one to Dallas to help Heather with her injury), we are worried about my Mom and are trying to get a referral to get her tested for some things (a process that is proving to be much harder than it should be), and we still spend 3-5 days down in Provo most weeks for our callings.   

All this means I've had very little free time to relax or to pursue my hobbies, but, don't fret, life is not all business!   Here are a few things that have been making me happy lately: 

1.  Time with old friends.   I recently got lunch with some of my dear friends from Virginia, most of whom have moved to Utah in the last few years.  We also watched Bella M. as Juliet in BYU's production of Romeo and Juliet and Logan N. performing in BYU's Young Ambassador's show.  It is incredibly meaningful for me to be able to spend time with people who know my kids, my story, and love me anyway.    It's a feeling that is very fleeting since moving to Utah, so I embrace it whenever I can!   

2.  It was our ward's turn to help with preparing and serving dinner at stake institute for 300-500 people, and it was so fun to be able to gather and serve together in that way!  

3.  Speaking of service, I love Christy and Alicia, two of the women I serve with at church...

4.  Entertaining isn't necessarily my forte, but I do love having our ward members to our home once a month.   It usually ends up right about 30 people and it's fun to give them a home-cooked meal and to find a good excuse to send some postcards afterwards.   

5.  I also love our ward temple nights.  There's something special about gathering together in the temple and I wish our home ward did this occasionally too.   

6.  I also love finding photos like this in our camera roll.    Adam recently ran a race with his friends...

 7.  And Emma had her own Branch Temple night in Boston...

Here they are gathering to watch the worldwide RS broadcast...

8.  I loved logging onto Facebook and finding this adorable picture of our missionary who comes home about THREE MONTHS!!!!!     

Speaking of our missionary, I totally look forward to our family phone calls every p-day.  The ability to be able to communicate weekly was the best rule change the church has ever made!  

9.  Adam and his roommates came up to our house for Glen to smoke them some steak!  I completely neglected to take pictures of them, but here's a glimpse of our delicious lunch that day! 

10.  These cuties are coming to visit soon and I can hardly wait!!! 

So, that's a glimpse of some happy stuff, though  I also need to be better about taking pictures.   Some happy things not pictured were book group at our house.  The discussion of "The Billion Dollar Spy"  was excellent, the turn-out decent (around 10 people), and all in all a great night.   We've also been lucky enough to spend a little more time with a special  friend of Adam's that I definitely need to take more pictures of. 

Will life continue to be stressful for a while?   Absolutely.   But I'm trying hard to look for the rays of light in the midst of it all!   

Have a beautiful day! 

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My Least Favorite Month

 January is not my favorite month of the year.   It's cold.  It's dark.  The holidays are over.  Spencer was diagnosed with leukemia in January, so there's a bit of PTSD I still deal with every year.  And, in general, I experience all sorts of restless feelings this time each year.  So I donate blood every January.  It's definitely become an annual tradition now and it gives me a sense of purpose/giving back in amongst all the angsty feelings.  

I also try to stay very busy.  That also helps.

All in one week in January,  I cleaned out the pantry, put away the Christmas stuff, hosted book group, donated blood, cleaned the house, made a menu, and started going ham on creating the Come Follow Me activity sheets for the upcoming year.  Staying busy is good for my mental state.  

I also finally got all the Christmas Eve pajama photos compiled into one collage, which made me super happy.   When you've got kids all over the country, these kinds of things can take a while!   

So I mentioned above that   I've started creating the Come, Follow Me activity sheets again for this upcoming year.  I discovered the use of AI for creating coloring sheets and it's been a fun resource for me. I'd been using CHATGPT for creating them and they would turn out like this.   Pretty good.   Sometimes with some weird stuff in it, because it's AI, but not terrible in my opinion.   

Then Spencer told me about a new AI platform that he'd heard was really good.  I decided to test it out and I put in the exact same prompt that I'd used on Chat to create the above coloring sheet of Abraham and Sarah from the bible.  This is what it came up with.... 

HAHAHA!  We may have laughed for a very long time about this.   I looked it up and apparently Claude is better for words than images and  I'd have to say that is a massive understatement.  Ha! 

January has also been quite the adventure for getting to know the new members of our BYU ward.   It's a little harder than we expected, because while it was only a fraction of the people than it was in September, it seems like the expectation is higher to learn the names more quickly.  I am still working hard to get there, but  I'm realizing that my brain still needs to meet people a few times before names/faces are really stuck in my brain well!  

And how did we finish my least favorite month off?   

WITH A TRIP TO RHODE ISLAND TO VISIT SOME OF  MY FAVORITE PEEPS!!!! 

Stay tuned for that blogpost coming soon....

This Christmas

 Happy New Year, friends!   It's been a whirlwind of a few weeks.  Heck, it's been a whirlwind of a few months and I am hopeful that I can start getting back to some sense of  normalcy soon...whatever that looks like.  Haha!   I will divide up blogging about our holiday break with a post about Christmas and another post about New Years, hopefully with a couple bonus ones thrown in too.    

I don't feel like I took as many pics as I normally do, but here are a few that show a glimpse of what our G family Christmas  looked like this year!    

One day during finals, my friend and fellow BYU ward leader, Christy and I bought a bunch of snacks from Trader Joes and set up at a table in the Wilkinson Center.  Then we sent a note out on our ward GroupMe and invited everyone to come get some fun brain food... 

We got about 40 members who came and filled up baggies with fun snacks (several of whom had never been into a Trader Joes before)...

It was a super fun way to connect with the members and wish them the best as they took their finals and headed home for the holidays...

I was delighted to receive these adorable pictures from Cami after Santa visited their preschool.  Oliver was very nervous and a high-five was the closest his comfort level would allow him to get, but Lucie was giddy about the visit!  

A day or two  after we had the Trader Joes final "party", Emma arrived home!  It was pure joy to have her home again, along with Adam, but sadly she spent the first few days she was here with low energy, no appetite, and some respiratory symptoms.  She'd had a fever previously and we're pretty sure she may have had the flu, which is going around right now.   After not being able to eat for several days, we took her to the doctor, where she was prescribed an anti-nausea medication.  Thankfully just a couple doses of that took the edge off and she slowly regained her appetite and energy over the next few days...but not before passing along the bug to Spencer as well, who has gone through pretty much the exact same set of miserable symptoms.  Thankfully, so far, Glen, Adam, and I have remained healthy (currently knocking on wood)! 

After Emma felt better, the fun really started with some craft projects (her own), way too much treat baking and eating, and  a ton  of board game playing... including 10 Days in Europe, Magic the Gathering (for the boys), Wingspan, a new game called "Coup", Nertz,  and....

Telestrations!   Here's one round in particular that made us laugh...   

I thought Glen's interpretation of "triplex" was hilarious.  

It was supposed to be three houses in a row (a TRIplex instead of a DUplex), but he read it as "triple-x", which is why he started drawing XXXL clothing! 

I was obviously very confused by Glen's drawing, but I guessed somewhat well considering what I had to work with.  Hahaha.  Adam drew the #7 picture.  

So..."Transplant" to "the blueberry girl from Charlie and the Chocolate Factory"

It was fun to play a game that even my Mom even attempted to play with us, since she does not enjoy playing games normally.  

This was us on Christmas Sunday.  BYU is a bit of a ghost town during Christmas break, so our ward was combined with three other wards.  Even with four wards combined we only had about 50 people there and with only one hour of church and no other meetings, we decided to jump on over to our home ward for their Christmas program.  It was the first time in about 8 months that we'd attended our home ward and it was a beautiful day to be there.   The music was amazing and it was great to see our neighbors and friends.  

 On Christmas Eve night, we went to a place called Nacho Daddy, which {surprise!} was a nacho place.  It wasn't fancy food by any stretch, but they were open and had availability, so that's where we went.   

I thought mine were quite tasty....

Afterward, we went to Temple Square and walked around for a bit.   The weather has been (not anymore) unseasonably warm and it was kind of wild walking around in just light jackets/sweatshirts and no hats on Christmas Eve night!  

It was a nice way to spend the evening before heading home for our traditional Christmas Eve devotional.  

I took zero pics of our devotional and will post the Christmas pajama photos in a separate post, but here's a sweet picture of Denali from that night...

And one of Emma and Adam from another day...

Christmas Day was pretty low-key.  We ate a good breakfast, mostly prepared by Ems, opened presents, and just chilled together.  I sent a Christmas text individually to all of our members and sent this photo of the Bishopric out on our ward GroupMe on Christmas morning...  (it's us, the S's, Brandon, and the G's)

Here's our Christmas Day charcuterie board {something that has become a tradition the last several years}...

made by Adam and Emma...

We got to talk to Ellie on Christmas Day, which pretty much marked the one year mark of her mission (technically it was December 23rd when she started, but close enough)!  She seemed super happy!  

It was a good Christmas, though we definitely missed having Ellie and Cam and her fam here.  I love being a missionary Mom and have been really trying to embrace this missionary season our family has been in for several years, but I won't lie, I'm happy to have our final missionary "blackout year" behind us now.   Only five and a half more months until we can all be under the same roof again!  

I hope you all have had a wonderful Christmas too!   Thank you for following along here.   

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