Friday, October 9, 2015

Embarking


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The theme for the youth program at our church this year is, 

"Therefore, O ye that embark in the service of God, see that ye serve him with all your heart, might, mind...." 

Early in the year, as a presidency, we discussed how we could weave this theme into our activities for the year.   We decided that a greater emphasis on service was one of the obvious things we could do, and as such we've engaged in a variety of service projects through the year.  Another idea we had, though,  was that we could  capitalize on the word "EMBARK" and  go on an embarking adventure!  

So on September 1st, the young women of our ward met together to EMBARK on a sailing trip together.  

One of my YW counselors has family that owns a home right on the Chesapeake Bay, which they were kind enough to let us use as a home base for two days.  


We spent two whole days in...

And on the water!  

It was a time when a lot of friendships were made...


and deepened.   

It was a great thing to spend time together as a ward...

since our stake does level based YW camp, which means we actually spend very little time together at camp.  

It was a beautiful and serene setting...

and I think the girls enjoyed unplugging a little right before school started again.  

They even got to do some crabbing...

which meant they also got to have a delicious crab lunch! 





We played games...

...went hiking...

and in general had a marvelous time together.  




Of course, it wasn't all fun and games.    We also had a great fireside and talked about the beauty of embarking on service in our lives.   


It was such a good experience to spend that unplugged time together that we hope to repeat it in future years.

I've been in this calling for three years now and oh how I've grown to love these girls! 
Ignore the typos and notes to myself, but here's a link to a sacrament meeting talk I recently gave about the young women.   They really are pretty amazing!  

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Monday, October 5, 2015

General Conference Summary: Sunday Sessions

  I'm one of those people who doesn't sit still often, so when I do I tend to fall asleep pretty quickly.  It's quite a problem actually, especially when I'm driving more than about 20 minutes or trying to accomplish something from a sitting position, which is why I often answer emails and blog while standing.  General Conference is  extra challenging for me, because we sit cozied up in comfortable chairs for the 8 hours.   It's just so easy to snooze and I try to convince myself that it's just as good to read the talks  that I missed in the Conference Ensign later.

This year I wanted a challenge--I wanted to create a "headline" for each talk and write up a little summary.    In order to do that though, I needed to stay awake, alert, and take good enough notes during all eight hours of general conference that I could actually have enough information from each talk to create these summaries for the blog.

I used different colored gel pens (which I love, by the way) for taking the notes--a different color for every talk.  Somehow the challenge  proved to be a very motivating (and even exciting) thing for me to do.   It shouldn't be such a big deal for a 42-year-old to stay awake and alert for 2-days, but for me it was an accomplishment and I am proud that I actually did it.

  I doubt these will mean as much to anyone else as they do to me, but  you can find Saturday's summary here, and below you will find my Sunday summary!    You can read or watch entire talks here if there's one that you want to read more about. 


Sunday Morning:  

Thomas S. Monson (a living prophet on the earth today)
BE AN EXAMPLE OF THE BELIEVERS
Watch the words we use and extend charity to others.
Exercise our faith by reading and pondering the scriptures. 
Gratitude, forgiveness, and goodwill will help our lights to shine. 

Ronald A. Rasband
I STAND ALL AMAZED
God's love is real and is for all of us--no matter where you are in your life.  
Reach out in love to others.  

Gary Stevenson
ANCHOR IN CHRIST
Anchor our faith in Jesus Christ. 
Focus on what you CAN do, rather than what you can't do.  

Dale G. Renlund
LOOK AT OTHERS THROUGH HEAVEN'S EYES
 You are called not for what you've done, but for what the Lord needs you to accomplish. 
Remember that everyone is a beloved son or daughter of Jesus Christ. 

Russell M. Nelson
GREAT IS THE STRENGTH OF COVENANT KEEPING WOMEN
The virtue, light, love, character, faith, and virtue of righteous women of today are a fulfillment of prophecy and making a huge difference in the world.  
Women are full partners with men in families, communities, and in church councils.  

Gregory A. Schwitzer
DON'T BE AFRAID TO TESTIFY OF CHRIST
True disciples represent the Lord even when it is not convenient. 
Have courage and be bold when testifying of truth. 
Voices try to drown out the simple message of the Gospel that God loves us.

Claudio R.M. Costa
TEACH OUR CHILDREN OF CHRIST
Tell the stories of Christ's life to our children.   
"I have no greater joy to hear that my children walk in truth."
Teach them the truth.   

Henry B. Eyring
THE HOLY GHOST TESTIFIES OF TRUTH:  
WE SHOULD SEEK ITS CONSTANT COMPANIONSHIP
The more we obey the spirit, the more impressions we will receive, and the more we will be blessed. 
Through the Holy Ghost we can see people as Heavenly Father sees them. 
Truths are verified by the Holy Ghost. 

Sunday Afternoon:   

D. Todd Christofferson
THE CHURCH IS AN INTEGRAL PART OF CHRIST'S WORK ON EARTH
The church is a necessary part of Christ's work on earth, and without it great things could not be accomplished.  
More important than knowing doctrine is learning how to apply it.   

Devin Durrant
"PONDERIZE" THE SCRIPTURES
Ponderize = 80% pondering + 20% memorizing
Like saving a little money each week for a rainy day, ponderizing the scriptures weekly helps us to elevate our thoughts and bring us closer to Christ. 
Discipline yourself, exercise your faith, and do it! 

Von G. Keetch
SEEK TO DO GOD'S WILL
Like a barrier in the bay to protect surfers from sharks, the commandments are safety and protection to us from spiritual dangers.   
God wants us to have joy, peace, success, and safety, which is why we have commandments.  

Carole M. Stephens
IF YOU LOVE ME, KEEP MY COMMANDMENTS
Commandments = Love
We show love by keeping commandments. 
He gives us commandments, because he loves us. 

Allen Haynie
THROUGH CHRIST WE CAN BE CLEAN
Through Christ we can be forgiven of our sins and be made clean again.  
Savior's atonement leaves no traces or tracks...it just heals.  
God will never reject us.  

Kim B. Clark
SEEK FOR EYES TO SEE AND EARS TO HEAR THE WILL OF THE LORD
Stand for truth with courage and seek for eyes to see and ears to hear the will of the Lord. 
Strive to live plain and simple truths of the gospel.   
We still live in a time of miracles.  

Koichi Aoyagi
KEEP FAITH IN ADVERSITY
Purpose of life is not to merely to overcome trials, but to learn to rely on the Lord and to increase your faith.  
All things are for your experience and good.  

David Bednar
OLD MEN ROCK!
There is great wisdom in having older, experienced men lead the church of God. 
Their physical limitations are actually an asset to them, in that it helps them to focus their efforts on what is most important.   
They are not spared affliction, but are blessed and strengthened (and increase in understanding) as they face the afflictions with faith.  

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The missionaries joined us for the Sunday morning session.   It was great to have them.  We love their spirit and  the extra good motivation not to snooze!  

Ellie loves missionaries and was especially excited that they had brought pictures to add to her missionary art binder.   

And second session looked like this (but not me!), so having them here really was a good motivator for us.

It turned out to be one of the most meaningful general conferences I'd ever experienced and I think I've learned some good tips for next time.     1.  Have guests over   2.  Have snacks to munch on  3.  Give myself a challenge.

I am grateful to live in a day and time when we are blessed to have a living prophet on the earth.   It's a comfort to know that in these perilous days that God has not left us without His guidance and revelation!


Saturday, October 3, 2015

General Conference Summary: Saturday Sessions

Twice a year, us Mormons, take a week off of going to church and watch 8-hours of church at home instead.   Yes, you read that correctly...8 whole hours...and we do it by choice.  It's split four hours on Saturday and four hours on Sunday.   What do they talk about for that long?    I'm glad you asked.   Here's a summary from the notes I took:    

Saturday Morning:

Dieter F. Uchtdorf
SIMPLICITY IN CHRIST
Exaltation is our goal, discipleship is our journey!  
Don't make your discipleship too complicated.  
Start where you are and move forward.  

M. Russell Ballard
STAY ON OLD SHIP ZION
Old Ship Zion's destination is exaltation!
Jesus Christ is at the helm of the Old Ship Zion.
We need to stay on the ship to stay safe in the waves of the world.

Richard J. Maynes
CENTER OUR LIVES ON CHRIST
Like a potter needs to keep the clay exactly centered on the potter's wheel, 
we need to keep our lives centered on Christ.  

Neill Marriott
IT WILL ALL WORK OUT
  When we keep an eternal perspective and trust in God, 
it will all work out.  
It doesn't mean that it will be easy or the way we want it, 
but God is in the details and it will work out.  

Larry Lawrence
LISTEN TO THE HOLY GHOST
He will give us personal guidance, meant just for us.  
Be persistent in seeking guidance and always seek for spiritual improvement. 
Our direction is more important than our speed.  

Francisco Vinas
PEACE BE UNTO THY SOUL
The word of God fills us with hope.  
Do not delay the day of our repentance.  
Repentance is a process that requires consistency, but will ultimately bring us peace. 

Quentin L. Cook
"SHIP SHAPE AND BRISTOL FASHION"
BE RIGHTEOUS, FOLOW RULES, AND BE PREPARED
Self control is like a muscle--the more you exercise it, the stronger it becomes. 
Happiness in this life and the life to come is connected by the thread of righteousness. 
Life will hit hard times (like in the Bristol Channel) and we may feel washed up and knocked on our sides, but when we are spiritually prepared we will be buoyed up.  

Saturday afternoon:   

Three new apostles called: 
Ronald Rasband
Gary Stevenson
Dale Renlund


Robert D. Hales
YOU ARE THE  PILOT OF YOUR LIFE:  NEVER INTENTIONALLY FLY INTO A STORM
If you want the Lord's counsel, be prepared to take it.  
You don't marry for perfection; you marry potential. 
You are rich when you can happily live within your means.   

Jeffrey R. Holland
MATERNAL LOVE IS DIVINE
"No love in mortality comes closer to approximating the pure love of Jesus Christ than the selfless love a devoted mother has  for her child."
Bear, borne, carry, deliver...these similar words are used to describe what the Savior  does for us as well as a mother.   

Bradley D. Foster
HELP CHILDREN UNDERSTAND
We must engage in intentional parenting.  
Children are the largest group of investigators in the church and they should be taught well. 
There's a difference between just hearing the gospel and truly understanding the gospel.  

Hugo Montoya
LET'S HELP EACH OTHER
Go the second mile, Smile.
Express feelings of compassion to others. 
Meditate on the atonement of Jesus Christ. 

Vern Stanfill
GO TOWARD THE LIGHT (OF THE GOSPEL)
Don't be embarrassed to ask for help or look to other's light when you are in darkness.
Trust in the Lord.   
Do not look to those who have no light to give. 

James Martino
ANSWERS WILL COME
keep seeking for answers; they will come. 

Dallin H. Oaks
CHRIST WILL SUCCOR US
He knows our struggles, heartaches, and temptations and will succor us. 
"I can do all things in Christ that strengtheneth me"
Savior can help us overcome any kind of mortal pain--those which come through no fault of our own and those caused by our own choices.  
God is mindful of ALL people.  

Interested in learning more?    You can watch the sessions live HERE.  (at 12:00 and 4:00pm EST)  
Stay tuned for more summaries to come!

(10/3/2015)

Friday, October 2, 2015

High Fives and Cookie Dough

I have to confess that I have a soft spot for small children and to me there's nothing quite like a happy three year old hanging around the house, telling funny stories and  handing out high fives. 
Earlier this summer, we had the privilege of having my nephews J and L stay with us for a few days while their Mom attended a family wedding in Utah (and Dad was still in England).   


It's been quite a while since we've had such little kids here and beforehand I was a little nervous about some of the details.   I worried about our house not being childproofed, I worried that they would hate all of our food, and I worried that my kids would get tired of sharing their time and toys with them.  And I was especially worried that there might be a lot of crying, especially with J and L being 5-hours in a different time zone and missing both parents.   

My fears were all unfounded though!    

J, L, and my kids were  rockstars.  They were all sweet, funny, unselfish, and just all-around delightful to be with.   There were very few tears and, in the end, it was happy, lovely week that I would happily repeat anytime.   


One of my favorite parts of having a little one around  were the conversations!  
Here are some of my favorite J quotes:   

  at 3am "We can't just have wa-ter.  I want a banana." 
at 8am  "I kind of, sort of don't like bananas."
"I'm sort of feeling soggy and need a new diaper." 
"I want a cupcake....and a snuggle."

Shortly after their mom came back from the wedding, we went on our 3-week vacation to take Cami out to BYU, so sadly we missed spending that time with them while they were in town.  Luckily they were still around for just a bit longer when we returned in a few weeks and we got to spend time with the whole family, including M, K, and baby B before they headed back to England.  

Baby B is about as adorable as they come and  I loved my baby snuggling time (though my arms ached for days afterward)....

 and I loved watching the sweet connection these brothers had with one another!  

One of the days they were here, we joined with the other Crain cousins and met them for a Scottish festival.   Though the festival was mostly a bust, it was fun to be together like old times (before M & K moved to England).      I've had so much fun adding hidden messages that no one reads into my blogposts, so I think I shall add another one today.   Today I will tell you about how I'd take a scoop of cookie dough over a fancy dessert any day of the week.   It's my diet kryptonite and anyone who wants to get on my good side should just whip me up a scoop of good old-fashioned chocolate chip cookie dough!  

This group of gorgeous cousins are best friends and it's been a delight watching their friendship with one another develop over the years.        

I am grateful that my kids have cousins that live nearby, so that they can have these kinds of relationships.  

And we look forward to when  M, K, and family move back someday. 

In the meantime we were grateful for the time we got to spend together!  

And hope that they'll come back from Jolly Old England and visit us again soon!  




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