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Saturday, December 24, 2016

Light the World

Last week I was asked to give a report on Cami's missionary service in France to our church congregation.  It was a hard message to prepare, but I was grateful for the opportunity it gave to gather my thoughts and put them on paper.    Normally that would be enough for me, but today I am feeling driven to take a huge step outside of my comfort zone to share that message here.   

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This Christmas the phrase, “Light the World,” has become somewhat of a catchphrase among church members. People, including many of you, are doing acts of service throughout the Christmas season in an effort to make the world a better and brighter place. You are lighting the world!

In Cami’s most recent letter home, we learned that “Eclairez le monde” is French for “Light the World,” and that church members in France are lighting the world in their own ways too. I’m guessing that members in many other countries around the world are as well.

No matter what language you say it in though, lighting the world is exactly what Cami, and all the missionaries serving throughout the world, are doing every day. They are loving the people, serving with their whole hearts, and making the communities where they live brighter by their service.

As many of you know, Cami’s job through high school was selling cupcakes and over the years she became quite successful at it, catering to weddings, showers, and work parties. She thought that she’d mostly have to stop baking while she was on her mission, but it probably shouldn’t have surprised us too much that her reputation as an outstanding baker has followed her to the mission and she had the opportunity this past week to put her cupcake baking skills to use for a mission event. She was so excited to be able to serve in this uniquely Cami way and when someone posted the pictures of her beautiful cupcake creation on Facebook this weekend, it was hard not to feel a little motherly pride and emotion knowing that she’s lighting the world in a way that only she can.

She even sent us her own spiritual baking analogy. Here is her quote:

“It's so obvious that God has His plan and His own timeline and we just have to do what we can in the moment to be His hands. It's almost like us and God are baking a cake together. He has the recipe and he's telling us what to do one step, one ingredient at a time. He has a picture of the final product, he's tasted it before. But all he gives us is one tiny little step at a time. We cannot even begin to comprehend how beautiful and delicious the cake will be at the end. We just have to trust him when he's telling us to add a 1/2 teaspoon of salt, to talk to a random person on the side of the street, to make cookies for a neighbor. Because if we never did the little things, we would never get to taste the cake.”

So, I can’t bake as well as Cami or sing as well as Emma, but over the years I’ve learned that we each have our own gifts to share. I used to be embarrassed that my gifts aren’t the showy or visible things, but in time I’ve learned that that doesn’t matter to God. He sees the whole beautiful plan and All He asks of us is to serve and to love in our own individual way.

President Monson said that  “ love is the very essence of the gospel, and Jesus Christ is our Exemplar. His life was a legacy of love. The sick He healed; the downtrodden He lifted; the sinner He saved. At the end the angry mob took His life. And yet there rings from Golgotha’s hill the words: “Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do”—a crowning expression in mortality of compassion and love.”

Cami’s only been on her mission a few months, but already she’s had some great opportunities to light the world in her own way. One of the most powerful stories that she’s shared was that of visiting a single dad and his two daughters. Her and her companion had struggled to know the lesson they should teach them, but eventually felt the unmistakable impression that they needed to simply teach them that they were loved children of our Heavenly Father. I couldn’t adequately put into coherent words all that followed, but over the course of the lesson it became very clear that that was the exact message that this family needed to hear. Cami had no way of knowing that in advance, but Heavenly Father knew, and because her and her companion had allowed themselves to be instruments in His hands, they were able to provide a small beacon of light in that struggling family’s lives.

I will use her own words as she wrapped up conveying that experience to us:  “This work is so much bigger than us. It's so much bigger than me. God knows his children. He knows every name that has slipped through the cracks on our ward list. He knows every child who thinks they are suffering all alone. And He will guide us to them if all we do is try to listen and not get in the way.”

Yes, her letters are a highlight in our weeks.  :)

Her experience reminded me of this quote from Pres. Uchtdorf: “My dear brothers and sisters, it may be true that man is nothing in comparison to the greatness of the universe. At times we may even feel insignificant, invisible, alone, or forgotten. But always remember—you matter to Him! God sees you not only as a mortal being on a small planet who lives for a brief season—He sees you as His child. He sees you as the being you are capable and designed to become. He wants you to know that you matter to Him.”

It’s humbling to think that God took two young, inexperienced women---one from Virginia, one from Arizona--put them in that small town in France more than an hour away from the more populated parts of their area, so that God could let that little family know that they did matter to Him. That they were not forgotten.

Joseph F. Smith said: '"Charity, or love, is the greatest principle in existence. If we can lend a helping hand to the oppressed, if we can aid those who are despondent and in sorrow, if we can uplift and ameliorate the condition of mankind, it is our mission to do it, it is an essential part of our religion to do it'. When we feel love for God's children, we are given opportunities to help them in their journey back to His presence" 

Knowing that a broken little family in France feels a little more hope because Cami and her companion allowed God to lead the way has inspired our family to be more cognizant of those around us that may feel broken. And knowing that a humble African man named Cani now has the light of the gospel and the gift of the Holy Ghost in his life because Cami and her companion were in the right place, at the right time, so they could teach him the beautiful truths of salvation helps us to want to be more aware of people in our paths who may be waiting for us to share the truths we know.

Our efforts don’t need to be grand. We simply need to act. We need to light the world in whatever way we can.

Most of us can easily recite the words to, “I Am a Child of God”, yet do we really believe the words? President Packer said, that “No idea has been more destructive of happiness, no philosophy has produced more sorrow, more heartbreak and mischief; no idea has done more to destroy the family than the idea that we are not the offspring of God” 

When we keep in our hearts a remembrance that not only are we children of God, but also all those around us, even those that may be hard to love, it will change us. We can let our actions be a little gentler, a little kinder, a little more understanding, and in the process love a little more like Christ would love.

“Wherefore, ye must press forward with a steadfastness in Christ, having a perfect brightness of hope, and a love of God AND of all men. Wherefore, if ye shall press forward, feasting upon the word of Christ, and endure to the end, behold, thus saith the Father: Ye shall have eternal life.” 2 Nephi 31:20

I will close with one more quote from one of Cami’s letters:
“The moral of the story is that there is always hope. Sometimes politics, war, evil, and depression feel really big. Sometimes these things fill our vision. But if we turn our vision to Christ, we cannot fall. Peter COULD walk on water UNTIL he looked away from Christ. As soon as he turned away and took in the winds and the waves all around him he started to sink. Let’s keep our sights on what's important. Let's all try to focus on the little white flowers of hope instead of the waves and the storms. Let’s keep our vision on Christ.” 

You all are an inspiration to me!  Thank you for lighting our world this Christmas season and helping us to remember the real reason for the season--a tiny baby born in a humble manger.  A baby who would grow to save the world from darkness.  

Merry Christmas! 
xoxo 

#LIGHTtheWORLD

Sunday, December 11, 2016

Adam's Talk

Email written to Cami and Emma....12/11/16 

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Hello, Beautiful Girls of Mine! 

Adam's talk today went awesomely well! He did a good job expressing himself, actually got a real deal laugh from the audience, and held himself together when the general authority called him back up and put him on the spot by asking him more questions!
Yes, that's like Public Speaking 501 right there!

He looked so handsome in his brand new suit, bought because he was busting out of his other one!   

Elder Randall Bennett was the visiting General Authority.   He  served his mission in southern France back in the day and he was actually mission companions with Bro. S. 

Below, you can read his talk.   Can you guess which part elicited the laugh?   It's also the part that he got the most comments on afterward.     

Well, I hope you had a wonderful Sabbath day!   I LOVE YOU!!!!!

Love, 
Mom  



ADAM'S TALK 
Sometime in the last couple of years, President Wheatley challenged the youth in our stake to find our own names to take to the temple. I had never done family history before that, so my mom set up a visit from a family history consultant in our ward and my whole family learned how to do it together. Since then, we’ve all tried to take a little time each Sunday to work on indexing, researching, or finding names and now my older sister and I are youth family history consultants in the Vienna Ward. And even my little sister, who’s still in primary, loves doing family history too.

Originally my mom and dad both thought that we wouldn’t be able to find very many names, since they both have had genealogists working on their family trees for many years. With the new technology and descendancy charts, though, we’ve been very surprised at the hundreds of names we’ve found that still need their temple work done.

Elder Boyd K. Packer said, “No work is more of a protection to [us] than...genealogical research. ... No work is more spiritually refining. No work we do gives us more power. No work requires a higher standard of righteousness. Our labors...cover us with a shield and a protection.”

Those blessings sound pretty amazing, don’t they?

Well, let me take a second and have you do a really hard math problem.

What is 0x0?

Zero, you say?

Well, that’s how many of those amazing blessings we get when we use excuses and don’t do any family history work.

So, here’s another math problem, what’s 1x12?

Twelve. Not a huge number, but something. What if we spent one hour every fast Sunday doing family history? That’s 12 hours a year of doing work for our departed loved ones and it opens the windows for receiving some of those blessings.

Now imagine if we did just one hour of family history work every Sunday? That’s 1x52! Now that’s opening the windows wide open for receiving those wonderful blessings that Elder Packer mentioned.

As part of my calling as a youth family history consultant, we try to do some family history every week. But another thing my sister and I have done is to host a family history night for all the youth at our house every other month or so. Our house isn’t very big, but we always make treats and everyone has a good time working on family history together. We help when people have questions about indexing or finding names and we’ve had so much success that the Vienna Ward youth have provided almost all of the names for our temple trips for the last year or so.

Elder Bednar said, “As you respond in faith to this invitation {to do family history}, your hearts shall turn to the fathers. The promises made to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob will be implanted in your hearts. Your patriarchal blessing, with its declaration of lineage, will link you to these fathers and be more meaningful to you. Your love and gratitude for your ancestors will increase. Your testimony of and conversion to the Savior will become deep and abiding. And I promise you will be protected against the intensifying influence of the adversary. As you participate in and love this holy work, you will be safeguarded in your youth and throughout your lives.”

I have felt that protection that both Elder Bednar and Elder Packer talked about and I have felt a connection with my ancestors as I’ve found their names and then been baptized for them. I am so grateful for the opportunity I’ve had to play a small role in helping those ancestors receive the blessings of salvation. I encourage you, no matter what stage of life you’re in, to remember those simple math problems we’ve done today. Whether it’s 1x12 or 1x52 or even more, we can make the time to open those windows and allow those blessings to flow into our lives.

I say these things, in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

Sunday, September 25, 2016

In France!

On Monday, September 12, Cami and her MTC district left the Missionary Training Center bright and early and headed for the SLC airport. She got to call us from the airport, so we were anxiously awaiting her arrival there. We ended up surprised at how long it took her to get there though and learned that missionaries now take buses and trains (public transportation) to make their own way to the airport. A real life practice for the mission, I guess. Eventually she did get to call us and we got 20 blissful minutes to hear her voice again. We loved talking to her and hearing the joy in her voice. She bore her testimony to us in French and we grilled her with a gazillion questions.

She flew to Philadelphia (where we got to talk to her for a few more minutes), then to Paris, then on to Lyon. She arrived there in Lyon mid-morning (France time) on Tuesday. We tracked her flights online and knew she'd arrived, but were antsy to hear the details. Eventually we got an email from the mission secretary that the group of 24 missionaries (14 of which were Sisters) had arrived safely and that we'd hear more details in the next day or so.

Later we got another email that her first companion is Soeur K (from Arizona) and that her first area is in the Lyon area, not far from the mission home!


Our time in Lyon in May was very limited, so we didn't actually explore the area all that much, which is why we were a little taken aback by the picturesqueness of some of the photos she sent us after that first week. This one looked like she was standing in the midst of quaint painting.


And this view....WOW!




I wouldn't mind a summer cottage with a view like this! Actually I wouldn't mind a summer cottage just about anywhere, but here would be amazingly awesome. :)


Her first week adventures included getting to eat escargot (good thing she tried it this summer on our trip):

And getting stuck on an elevator with an "amie" they wanted to teach, but who was too big of a hurry (until the elevator got stuck).


It sounds like she's experienced some discouragement and frustration with learning to speak and understand French, but overall, she is handling it like a champ.   She is working and studying hard and is gaining some amazing insights along the way.   Click here if you want to read her weekly letters.

We're so proud of our Cami!

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Friday, August 12, 2016

Philadelphia Temple



In the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we build temples as special places of worship. They are different than the meetinghouses where we meet and worship together every week and we consider them to be sacred, holy places where special ordinances (such as weddings) are performed. 

When I was growing up in Minnesota, our family drove 24-hours to the nearest temple in Salt Lake or Washington DC. That distance meant that we could only go once a year, at most. When I was a teen, they built a temple in Chicago, which then made it only an 8-hour drive to get to. This was a HUGE blessing for my family and all the people who lived in the midwest. 

When I was in college there were about 50 temples throughout the world, which meant that people in many places still had significant distances to travel to get to a temple. In the mid-90's an announcement was made that they were going to start building smaller temples in more places, to get them closer to the people. Twentyish years later there are now 150 temples throughout the world and these temples continue to bless the people and the communities where they are located. 

We are in Philadelphia right now, where a brand new temple was just built. It's right in the heart of the city and quite a beautiful sight to behold! The architecture resembles that of other historic buildings in the area and THEY ARE GIVING FREE TOURS RIGHT NOW for anyone (church member or not) who is interested in seeing the inside of a temple! Tours are available now through early September. 


We took our tour yesterday and really enjoyed seeing the unique interior of this lovely building. {Pictures were not allowed to be taken in the interior, so the following pictures are from this website

This is the baptismal font where vicarious baptismal ordinances are performed for those who died without a knowledge of the gospel. Of course, this isn't a forced baptism, since we also believe that the deceased person has the opportunity to accept or reject the baptism in the afterlife. 

This is the celestial room, where no ordinances are performed, but people go to contemplate and enjoy the quiet and peace found there. 


This is an instruction room where we learn more about God's plan for us. 


This is a "sealing room" where marriages are performed for time AND eternity. Glen and I were married in a very similar looking room in the Denver temple in 1993. 


We also loved all the nods throughout the temple to the history of the area. There are pieces of art depicting the founding of our country and some of the great historical events that took place here in Philadelphia. 

It really was a joy to bring the kids there and answer questions they had about the temple. We've also been enjoying our Jack/Lincoln/Ben time, which is slightly easing my missing-Cami-ache! 




My nephew, visiting from England (on top of the dog pile here) is getting baptized here in Pennsylvania tomorrow, which is why we were lucky enough to get them to come hang out with us for a while! 



"There exists a righteous unity between the temple and the home. Understanding the eternal nature of the temple will draw you to your family; understanding the eternal nature of the family will draw you to the temple." —Gary E. Stevenson


I love my family and am so grateful for the blessings of the temple in our lives! 

Monday, March 28, 2016

Cami's Mission Call

March 28:  

Dear Sister G.,
You are hereby called to serve as a missionary of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  You are assigned to labor in the France Lyon Mission.


We are so excited for Cami and know she will be an awesome missionary!   

I can't wait to dive in and learn all about the beautiful area of the world (including southern France, western Switzerland, and Monaco) where she will serve the Lord for 18-months!  

We are proud of our Cami Rose!  



Sunday, March 27, 2016

Happy Easter!

March 27: 
Happy Easter!

This song is one that the primary children sang today in our Easter program and it's been stuck in my head ever since.  What a powerful testimony of Christ's love for each of us personally.   

Jesus climbed the hill
To the garden still
His steps were heavy and slow
Love and a prayer
Took Him there
To the place only He could go

Gethsemane
Jesus loves me
So He went willingly
To Gethsemane

He loves me....and you!   


"The Savior has suffered not just for our iniquities but also for the inequality, the unfairness, the pain, the anguish, and the emotional distresses that so frequently beset us. There is no physical pain, no anguish of soul, no suffering of spirit, no infirmity or weakness that you or I ever experience during our mortal journey that the Savior did not experience first. You and I in a moment of weakness may cry out, “No one understands. No one knows.” No human being, perhaps, knows. But the Son of God perfectly knows and understands, for He felt and bore our burdens before we ever did."


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Saturday, March 26, 2016

A Chorus of Angels

March 25:

On Friday,  everything came together for  the first official performance of "Savior of the World."  The cast has been practicing regularly for over three months and all three of my thespians were very excited {and nervous} about performing in front of an audience.    

Ellie's jitters translated into a nervous energy and an ear-to-ear grin the entire night.  

The performance came together beautifully.... 

and I was surprised at the high quality of the music and the acting.   

Here's a video of the final scene of the play. 

There's one more performance left!  If you're in the area, I highly recommend altering your Easter plans to include this meaningful family activity!  

Easter Sunday, March 27, 2016
7:00pm 

(admission is free, but you'll want to come at least an hour early to pick up your free tickets)

Wednesday, October 14, 2015

Engraving on Our Heart

In General Conference a week and a half ago, Elder Durrant gave a talk that really resonated with our family about "ponderizing" scriptures. What is "ponderizing", you ask?   According to Elder Durrant, it's 80% pondering + 20% memorizing.   He encouraged people to pick a scripture per week to "ponderize,"  hang it up around your house, and spend a little time each day reading it, pondering it,  and making it a part of your heart and mind.    We've read the Book of Mormon together several times over the years, but this sounded like a great way to dive in a little deeper.     So we started the very next day.   

Week 1 (10/4/15):   2 Nephi 31:20 
How we chose it:    This scripture was in the chapter we were reading in our daily scripture study on that Monday morning after General conference, and when we came across it, I just knew that that would be our very first ponderizing scripture!    We had a lot of great discussions about it through the week and even spent some time studying it in French.      



Week 2 (10/11/15):  D&C 82:9-10
How we chose it:  I decided that the activity of ponderizing would be more meaningful if we took turns choosing the scripture each week.  This is the scripture that Glen chose.   The kids already have verse 10 completely memorized, but it will definitely take some time to get the first part down.   We are not necessarily setting out to memorize them at all, but to remember phrases and what they mean to us.

We are looking forward to many more weeks of ponderizing to come and hope that you'll join us with whatever scriptures you read!      Tell me in the comments what scriptures you're ponderizing right now.  Or which one we should do next.

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Monday, October 5, 2015

General Conference Summary: Sunday Sessions

  I'm one of those people who doesn't sit still often, so when I do I tend to fall asleep pretty quickly.  It's quite a problem actually, especially when I'm driving more than about 20 minutes or trying to accomplish something from a sitting position, which is why I often answer emails and blog while standing.  General Conference is  extra challenging for me, because we sit cozied up in comfortable chairs for the 8 hours.   It's just so easy to snooze and I try to convince myself that it's just as good to read the talks  that I missed in the Conference Ensign later.

This year I wanted a challenge--I wanted to create a "headline" for each talk and write up a little summary.    In order to do that though, I needed to stay awake, alert, and take good enough notes during all eight hours of general conference that I could actually have enough information from each talk to create these summaries for the blog.

I used different colored gel pens (which I love, by the way) for taking the notes--a different color for every talk.  Somehow the challenge  proved to be a very motivating (and even exciting) thing for me to do.   It shouldn't be such a big deal for a 42-year-old to stay awake and alert for 2-days, but for me it was an accomplishment and I am proud that I actually did it.

  I doubt these will mean as much to anyone else as they do to me, but  you can find Saturday's summary here, and below you will find my Sunday summary!    You can read or watch entire talks here if there's one that you want to read more about. 


Sunday Morning:  

Thomas S. Monson (a living prophet on the earth today)
BE AN EXAMPLE OF THE BELIEVERS
Watch the words we use and extend charity to others.
Exercise our faith by reading and pondering the scriptures. 
Gratitude, forgiveness, and goodwill will help our lights to shine. 

Ronald A. Rasband
I STAND ALL AMAZED
God's love is real and is for all of us--no matter where you are in your life.  
Reach out in love to others.  

Gary Stevenson
ANCHOR IN CHRIST
Anchor our faith in Jesus Christ. 
Focus on what you CAN do, rather than what you can't do.  

Dale G. Renlund
LOOK AT OTHERS THROUGH HEAVEN'S EYES
 You are called not for what you've done, but for what the Lord needs you to accomplish. 
Remember that everyone is a beloved son or daughter of Jesus Christ. 

Russell M. Nelson
GREAT IS THE STRENGTH OF COVENANT KEEPING WOMEN
The virtue, light, love, character, faith, and virtue of righteous women of today are a fulfillment of prophecy and making a huge difference in the world.  
Women are full partners with men in families, communities, and in church councils.  

Gregory A. Schwitzer
DON'T BE AFRAID TO TESTIFY OF CHRIST
True disciples represent the Lord even when it is not convenient. 
Have courage and be bold when testifying of truth. 
Voices try to drown out the simple message of the Gospel that God loves us.

Claudio R.M. Costa
TEACH OUR CHILDREN OF CHRIST
Tell the stories of Christ's life to our children.   
"I have no greater joy to hear that my children walk in truth."
Teach them the truth.   

Henry B. Eyring
THE HOLY GHOST TESTIFIES OF TRUTH:  
WE SHOULD SEEK ITS CONSTANT COMPANIONSHIP
The more we obey the spirit, the more impressions we will receive, and the more we will be blessed. 
Through the Holy Ghost we can see people as Heavenly Father sees them. 
Truths are verified by the Holy Ghost. 

Sunday Afternoon:   

D. Todd Christofferson
THE CHURCH IS AN INTEGRAL PART OF CHRIST'S WORK ON EARTH
The church is a necessary part of Christ's work on earth, and without it great things could not be accomplished.  
More important than knowing doctrine is learning how to apply it.   

Devin Durrant
"PONDERIZE" THE SCRIPTURES
Ponderize = 80% pondering + 20% memorizing
Like saving a little money each week for a rainy day, ponderizing the scriptures weekly helps us to elevate our thoughts and bring us closer to Christ. 
Discipline yourself, exercise your faith, and do it! 

Von G. Keetch
SEEK TO DO GOD'S WILL
Like a barrier in the bay to protect surfers from sharks, the commandments are safety and protection to us from spiritual dangers.   
God wants us to have joy, peace, success, and safety, which is why we have commandments.  

Carole M. Stephens
IF YOU LOVE ME, KEEP MY COMMANDMENTS
Commandments = Love
We show love by keeping commandments. 
He gives us commandments, because he loves us. 

Allen Haynie
THROUGH CHRIST WE CAN BE CLEAN
Through Christ we can be forgiven of our sins and be made clean again.  
Savior's atonement leaves no traces or tracks...it just heals.  
God will never reject us.  

Kim B. Clark
SEEK FOR EYES TO SEE AND EARS TO HEAR THE WILL OF THE LORD
Stand for truth with courage and seek for eyes to see and ears to hear the will of the Lord. 
Strive to live plain and simple truths of the gospel.   
We still live in a time of miracles.  

Koichi Aoyagi
KEEP FAITH IN ADVERSITY
Purpose of life is not to merely to overcome trials, but to learn to rely on the Lord and to increase your faith.  
All things are for your experience and good.  

David Bednar
OLD MEN ROCK!
There is great wisdom in having older, experienced men lead the church of God. 
Their physical limitations are actually an asset to them, in that it helps them to focus their efforts on what is most important.   
They are not spared affliction, but are blessed and strengthened (and increase in understanding) as they face the afflictions with faith.  

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The missionaries joined us for the Sunday morning session.   It was great to have them.  We love their spirit and  the extra good motivation not to snooze!  

Ellie loves missionaries and was especially excited that they had brought pictures to add to her missionary art binder.   

And second session looked like this (but not me!), so having them here really was a good motivator for us.

It turned out to be one of the most meaningful general conferences I'd ever experienced and I think I've learned some good tips for next time.     1.  Have guests over   2.  Have snacks to munch on  3.  Give myself a challenge.

I am grateful to live in a day and time when we are blessed to have a living prophet on the earth.   It's a comfort to know that in these perilous days that God has not left us without His guidance and revelation!


Saturday, October 3, 2015

General Conference Summary: Saturday Sessions

Twice a year, us Mormons, take a week off of going to church and watch 8-hours of church at home instead.   Yes, you read that correctly...8 whole hours...and we do it by choice.  It's split four hours on Saturday and four hours on Sunday.   What do they talk about for that long?    I'm glad you asked.   Here's a summary from the notes I took:    

Saturday Morning:

Dieter F. Uchtdorf
SIMPLICITY IN CHRIST
Exaltation is our goal, discipleship is our journey!  
Don't make your discipleship too complicated.  
Start where you are and move forward.  

M. Russell Ballard
STAY ON OLD SHIP ZION
Old Ship Zion's destination is exaltation!
Jesus Christ is at the helm of the Old Ship Zion.
We need to stay on the ship to stay safe in the waves of the world.

Richard J. Maynes
CENTER OUR LIVES ON CHRIST
Like a potter needs to keep the clay exactly centered on the potter's wheel, 
we need to keep our lives centered on Christ.  

Neill Marriott
IT WILL ALL WORK OUT
  When we keep an eternal perspective and trust in God, 
it will all work out.  
It doesn't mean that it will be easy or the way we want it, 
but God is in the details and it will work out.  

Larry Lawrence
LISTEN TO THE HOLY GHOST
He will give us personal guidance, meant just for us.  
Be persistent in seeking guidance and always seek for spiritual improvement. 
Our direction is more important than our speed.  

Francisco Vinas
PEACE BE UNTO THY SOUL
The word of God fills us with hope.  
Do not delay the day of our repentance.  
Repentance is a process that requires consistency, but will ultimately bring us peace. 

Quentin L. Cook
"SHIP SHAPE AND BRISTOL FASHION"
BE RIGHTEOUS, FOLOW RULES, AND BE PREPARED
Self control is like a muscle--the more you exercise it, the stronger it becomes. 
Happiness in this life and the life to come is connected by the thread of righteousness. 
Life will hit hard times (like in the Bristol Channel) and we may feel washed up and knocked on our sides, but when we are spiritually prepared we will be buoyed up.  

Saturday afternoon:   

Three new apostles called: 
Ronald Rasband
Gary Stevenson
Dale Renlund


Robert D. Hales
YOU ARE THE  PILOT OF YOUR LIFE:  NEVER INTENTIONALLY FLY INTO A STORM
If you want the Lord's counsel, be prepared to take it.  
You don't marry for perfection; you marry potential. 
You are rich when you can happily live within your means.   

Jeffrey R. Holland
MATERNAL LOVE IS DIVINE
"No love in mortality comes closer to approximating the pure love of Jesus Christ than the selfless love a devoted mother has  for her child."
Bear, borne, carry, deliver...these similar words are used to describe what the Savior  does for us as well as a mother.   

Bradley D. Foster
HELP CHILDREN UNDERSTAND
We must engage in intentional parenting.  
Children are the largest group of investigators in the church and they should be taught well. 
There's a difference between just hearing the gospel and truly understanding the gospel.  

Hugo Montoya
LET'S HELP EACH OTHER
Go the second mile, Smile.
Express feelings of compassion to others. 
Meditate on the atonement of Jesus Christ. 

Vern Stanfill
GO TOWARD THE LIGHT (OF THE GOSPEL)
Don't be embarrassed to ask for help or look to other's light when you are in darkness.
Trust in the Lord.   
Do not look to those who have no light to give. 

James Martino
ANSWERS WILL COME
keep seeking for answers; they will come. 

Dallin H. Oaks
CHRIST WILL SUCCOR US
He knows our struggles, heartaches, and temptations and will succor us. 
"I can do all things in Christ that strengtheneth me"
Savior can help us overcome any kind of mortal pain--those which come through no fault of our own and those caused by our own choices.  
God is mindful of ALL people.  

Interested in learning more?    You can watch the sessions live HERE.  (at 12:00 and 4:00pm EST)  
Stay tuned for more summaries to come!

(10/3/2015)

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

FHE….Ellie Style

  Ever since the kids were tiny, we've reserved one night a week--usually Sunday or Monday--for  learning the gospel and spending time together during family home evening (FHE).   We usually sing a few songs, talk a little about our week, then have a short lesson and a treat.   The lesson is not usually very long or very profound, but it is meaningful time we spend together week-after-week that brings our family closer together.

When the kids were younger, I went to great lengths to engage the kids in the lessons.  I used flannel board stories, puppets, and creative games to help make the learning more meaningful to them. As they've gotten older though, the lessons now  are more often iterations of lessons I've either heard or given to the Young Women or discussions about some topic that's been on our minds.  I guess we may have have gotten a little boring around here, because Ellie practically begged to take over the lesson yesterday.  We readily agreed. 

And believe me when I tell you, that things were a lot livelier last night than during our average family home evening.  We still had the sullen teen who kept muttering under her breath about all the homework she had to do, but the rest of the lesson was all dramatics and giggles, and I do not mean that in a bad way.

Ellie was the narrator, costume designer, and stage director for an amazing lesson about Esther.  
She had learned about Esther during Primary on Sunday and was so excited to share what she learned with the rest of us.  It was one of the most memorable FHE lessons we've had in a long time and made me grateful for inspired teachers who so lovingly prepare lessons for my kids each week and also for inspired leaders who encourage us to take time out of our busy schedules to devote to our families.  


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Sunday, May 4, 2014

Mormon Prom

So some of you non-Mormons out there are probably wondering what Mormon prom is and why is it such a big deal. It's a HUGE production that took dozens and dozens of people thousands of hours of work to put on.  My friend Cindy was the director of it and she has been working on it well over a year....all voluntarily and without pay.   The end results were absolutely phenomenal and after all the hours and hours of work, it really was the "Dance of the Decades."   

The entire church was transformed into a breathtaking walk through time and nearly 700 juniors and seniors from the surrounding 6 (or maybe 8) stakes showed up to participate in a magical night of good clean fun.   There was no drinking, no dirty dancing, no skanky clothing, and no offensive song lyrics.  It was simply a night when a big group of youth seeking to live with high moral standards could enjoy an evening together.   

The 1950's room bedecked as an old-school diner was one of  my favorite rooms.  My friends Ellen and Kylee designed this room and the details they put into it were mind boggling to me.  I can barely even decorate my own house...in fact I still haven't decorated months after our renovations ended...and together, they transformed our very vanilla YW room into an amazing step back in time to the 50's.  

Even the waiters and waitresses (which included three of my beautiful young women and a good friend of Adam's) looked like they stepped right out of an episode of "Leave it to Beaver".

The 1970's room, designed by my friend Linda, was another one of my favorite rooms. It had a  lava lamp lounge and an almost life-size VW bus for people to pose in!

Of course the room I related to the most was the 1980's room!  I felt right at home with the familiar movie posters, the Super Mario cut-outs, and 80's vernacular hanging around the room!  I daresay I also would have done much better on the 80's quiz that Cami said she failed miserably at.
It was a whole lot of effort put on by a whole lot of people, but it was worth every second of it for these wonderful youth! 

Last, but not least,  the reason why you're here in the first place....Cami's prom pictures.  She and her date, Matt, are good friends who have been in the same seminary class for the last three years.

 Cami originally forgot the boutonniere at home, so I had to make a mad dash home so we could get the proper picture of her pinning it on him.  It turned out to be one of my favorite pictures of the night.


Sadly Cami proved no less forgetful with the corsage he gave her. Shortly before taking off for dinner she took it off to wash her hands and forgot it on a friend's counter, so she went flowerless for all of about 30 minutes of the night. 


It's too bad too, since the ribbon matched Cami's necklace perfectly! 


Here are all the young gentlemen in their group...
Graham, Matt, Cole, Frank, Sam, Jesse

and the beautiful young ladies!    I seriously don't think they could have been any more gorgeous!
Faerlan, Maddie, Katy, Cami, Hannah, Jordann
Here are a few more pictures that I liked from the night!

Mental note for next year...before taking a group photo like this I will make sure that all the girls have their corsages on the same wrist!

I love how this one of Katy and Frank turned out.  They are seriously adorable! 

I take partial credit for the cute chalkboard in this group photo!  I saw a prom picture online that I liked with the chalkboard, so Cami grabbed hers off her wall and made it look cute!  I personally liked the fun touch it added.  

And here is one last glimpse at a few more of my beautiful young women... 
(NOTE:  a few of these pictures were taken by Bro. Nielson)!

Kate and Mary Kate

Meagan and Sarah

Cami, Ashley, Katy

Maddie, Faerlan -- Maddie, Hannah

I only donated a paltry couple hours of hanging up balloons and that token glimpse I got at the efforts that went into this night, made me all the more grateful for all those who sacrificed and worked for so long to make this happen.  

Thank you, thank you, thank you!  


And thank goodness that it's another 6 years before it's our stake's turn to host again!   

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NOTE:  The pictures of the decorations at the beginning of this post were taken by either Bruce or Ellen. 
Also a few of the pictures of the young women and their dates were taken by Bruce, since they did not end up in the same group as Cami.

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